Here comes my first post. As I said earlier something interesting and controversial of course….:P
Love. What exactly is this feeling? A feeling which plays across all age, a feeling brings happiness at all point of time…….:) A feeling that blossoms deep inside the heart of all, who experience the spark in them. These are ones people who fall in love say.
At the other end, “Love, it is pain”. “It is just an attraction towards the opposite sex”. “It drags u to the top of happiness and pulls u down to deep pain”. These are ones which people who don’t believe in love say.
A totally different opinion from these two groups. Is it so complex? Is there something called true love??? So many questions but every question always have an answer and so is for the questions on the beautiful emotional feeling called LOVE. J
In the past few years I have seen couples together bonded with strong true love (atleast that’s wat they say :P) These people are so intimate that others who see feel that they are the current Romeo/Juliet :P. As days pass by this feel increase so much that they talk nonsense and rubbish about each other :D
Exactly that’s wat has been happening in the last few days. Most of the people who I’ve seen together are been through break ups and I really don’t understand how they can talk so ill about someone they loved the most in this world. So that is it all about “true love” for many people around us. Generally the problem in such break-ups is that people expect something great from their partners and get let down when partners don’t meet their expectations. With the whole world changing towards the business prospects at all points, even Love suffers on its side in the hands of Business.
Only on business viewpoint people match the expectations. Love is not such a thing, it should be unconditional no matter wat, like a mother’s kiss to her child, like a father’s hug to his loved one, or even like a kid’s smile. It is so amazing when u feel such unconditional love from a person. But I wonder ever on the earth is such true love exists other than the one from our parents. Business and love are like same poles of a magnet. They never go with each other. The moment u start expecting the feel of love reduces slowly down to the earth. Love doesn’t exist when u expect considerations (something in return) from it. I have heard that even in Business, consideration is not required for love and mutual relationship ( I do listen in business law classes :P)
In more of a scientific way we can say true love is inversely proportionate to expectations, where one increases the other decreases. Trust me when “True Love” is at peak there will be no question for expectations, even unexpected things happen on its own… J Many of us would have experienced it from our parents. This is what they call “true love”, not the one where u admire and care someone when u love them and speak all rubbish when they don’t meet ur expectations. We are lucky to experience such true love from our mom and dad; there are quite a lot of people who don’t have that chance (orphans) :/
All I wanted to say is whoever it may be express your love towards them and don’t expect something in return, who knows when such emotion sustains u may be gifted with something u have never dreamt off ;) And never talk bloody things about ur loved ones when u have some mix-ups, it will hurts like hell when the other comes to know about it. And that shows your character and attitude towards love.
And so Finally, To all those people outside who have got such a true lover in their life already, I would say they are luckiest one in the world. To all those who have lot of expectations, my humble request is, try to be a true lover u might also end up to be in the list the luckiest ones :P To all those who had break ups because of expectations, think of the love from ur mom and dad perhaps that might bring back ur true love to u J
So that’s it from me on this post. Ciao in some exciting post next time J
Love is in the Air. It is Every Where!!!! Just feel it J
Happy Loving J
Regards
Dreamer Boy
