I do Believe In GOD ;)

Hello Readerzzz,

I’m back with all my idiotic writing (Ppl might feel that after reading the post :P )
It is been quite some time now after my previous post, reason being me in a confusion on whether to post this article or not. With a lot of discussion about this topic with fellow beings around me gave a lot of different views about a single Word Belief :P

The Controversy actually starts with the very start of this word. I’m pretty sure if the people who argued with me on this topic have chance to read this post, they would have their hands on their head and will be nodding at screen thinking that this guys needs to grow up… :D

So Let see what would make them feel so…

To start off with, What is Religion??? Who is GOD??? What is the actual Belief of the common people here? Looking at this as a neutral person my view towards religion would be, a man made community that helps them in different point of time in their life. And this had been followed by our human compatriot for centuries and centuries. When you actually go back and start reading the history of each and every major religion, it would be a script of a single personality who lived centuries back, who you cannot track and even if u track the details about him will be a script of someone else who is similar to him. And You would never get a possible chance to validate the script :P

If my guess is right, most of the readers by now would have started to look at me as a atheist…. :D But I’m Not an ATHEIST. Not at all.
I do believe in God. My Belief is, There is one Almighty power that do control each and every activity in this universe, but the way we look at him is different in each religion. A Christian looks at God as Jesus Christ, A Muslim looks at God as Allah. A Hindu looks God as Siva etc…. and goes across all religion. The point is that we all believe in god, but down the lane people forget that and start their competitive behavior in forms of religion with the debate of who is the real God, or Who is Better?? Ur God or My God??? Like a Kinder garden kid fighting with her classmate for a piece of rubber. It really has become a Brand war between religions atleast here in India.

Most of us would have felt this when we see people fighting on religion as a topic, but we don’t express it outside often fearing that the society would brand us as an Atheist. I would say it is better to be branded as an atheist than fighting with your fellow being on religion and breaking the core theme of all the religion, “LOVE Your Fellow Beings”. I’ve seen so many people who are very calm going crazy to the extreme when they start talking about religion. What is it that actually changes the human nature when it comes to religion? More than the core value of religion the point that he/she belongs to a certain religion dominates more and gets spreads across the inner brain, which actually stops them from thinking the rationality of their doing. In one sense I can say that they fail to use the gift that God gave the humankind, “The Sixth Sense”. So what is the point in feeling pity about them? :P And People call this fighting thoughtfulness as Belief in religion…. :D :D

Can we change it??? Well that’s a million dollar question. The feeling of religion is deep rooted in the blood from the childhood so this can be changed only from this generation who might be more rational thinkers than religious thinkers, so that the next generation might not get the deep rooting procedures from this generation about religion :P

Recently I Spoke with a friend of mine on this topic who at the beginning was supporting the thought but as time went by and when It came to the point of acceptability of a life partner from a different religion, the true self outbursts :P More than the character\Love of the person whom you are going to share the rest of the life, Religion stands tall... ;)

Ppl are actually reluctant to come out of the barrier which they ancestors made. Some do wish but the intuitive feeling stops them from doing it, giving an explanation that it is wrong. I seriously don’t understand, what is wrong? People getting bundled up in a rigid box in mind, where u forget the fact that a person from different religion is also the same as you or Trying to come out of the box and follow the core value of the so called religion. Think of this… Give a little of work to your Sixth sense/Common sense. that will actually explain the real fact :)

So does it actually end up with only fighting about religion? Well Not Exactly
We’ll see what happens to ppl when they get too obsessed towards religious belief. I have a lot of instances to support my thought and I do have some logic attached to all those instances. But all these would be in the next post…. ;) I have split this topic into small ones as it has very interesting arguments to be portrayed. So think of where your actual belief lies in , is it the core value or is it just the Religion you believe in. And when you get the answer for this I would be ready with what more can the blind belief can do to a person :P

Until then have a great time and spread the value of the religion “LOVE” and not just the religion :D

Ciao everyone in the next post :)

With Best regards for your Value Spreading,
Dreamer Boy 

EYE OPENER :)

Hey Folks

It is been a long time after my first post. Like always people have a reason for delay I also have one :P

Pressure on my first job :) Life is getting smoother day by day so thought of getting back to the old theory of “pen down the thoughts “ now.

What topic should I write upon now? I’ve seen so many things in the short span of time, may be a real “eye opener” in the new place.
I don’t know how many people believe in learning other languages. I have been a victim now suffering for everything just because I knew only my mother tongue except English.

People should atleast speak in our national language Hindi, which is spoken almost all part of the country. I really regret for not learning it. Outside the boundary of TN, Hindi is must for survival…:P Believe me it is my personal experience :P I stood around 2 hours in the road side for a auto rickshaw unable to explain the driver the place I want to go which was actually just 2 km from where I was standing. Finally ended up paying 100 bucks for the short distance :D

People exploit you if u don’t know the local language. The funny fact is that the place where I’m in has a separate mother tongue but people there speak Hindi more compared to the local language, from the chaiwala to the show room manager. I’m even struggling to explain what to cook for lunch and dinner to my maid in my house, where she ends up cooking what I don’t want to be cooked most of the time :D

But looking at it on a serious note, it is very essential to know hindi. It is actually a shame for not knowing our national language. Leave of the fact that TN’s political leaders made a mess out of not making Hindi a compulsory language and trying to make regional language as the national language. It our own duty to know our national language, if not in school, at least outside school, if not for knowledge but at least for survival, in case you end up working in a place which is not your native state. Seriously I felt ashamed when people in my work place started mocking me for not knowing our national language. Just imagine of a place where u stand alone not knowing the particular language and everyone including your boss communicates in that language.

I’m not surprised when my colleagues have tagged all people from Chennai as people who don’t know Hindi, because it is the fact :)
So my kind request to my friends, dear ones and all people of Chennai and TN, it is better now than never. Please stop bitching about the politicians playing the spoil sport in learning the language and start learning our national language as I am starting it now and avoid embarrassing situations like I experienced, in a new place in the future :P

Happy Learning :)

Next post to follow very soon......

Regards
Dreamer Boy

True Love!!!! WTH???

Here comes my first post. As I said earlier something interesting and controversial of course….:P  

Love. What exactly is this feeling? A feeling which plays across all age, a feeling brings happiness at all point of time…….:) A feeling that blossoms deep inside the heart of all, who experience the spark in them. These are ones people who fall in love say.

At the other end, “Love, it is pain”. “It is just an attraction towards the opposite sex”. “It drags u to the top of happiness and pulls u down to deep pain”. These are ones which people who don’t believe in love say.

A totally different opinion from these two groups. Is it so complex? Is there something called true love???   So many questions but every question always have an answer and so is for the questions on the beautiful emotional feeling called LOVE. J

In the past few years I have seen couples together bonded with strong true love (atleast that’s wat they say  :P) These people are so intimate that others who see feel that they are the current Romeo/Juliet :P. As days pass by this feel increase so much that they talk nonsense and rubbish about each other :D

Exactly that’s wat has been happening in the last few days. Most of the people who I’ve seen together are been through break ups and I really don’t understand how they can talk so ill about someone they loved the most in this world.  So that is it all about “true love” for many people around us. Generally the problem in such break-ups is that people expect something great from their partners and get let down when partners don’t meet their expectations. With the whole world changing towards the business prospects at all points, even Love suffers on its side in the hands of Business.

Only on business viewpoint people match the expectations. Love is not such a thing, it should be unconditional no matter wat, like a  mother’s kiss to her child, like a father’s hug to his loved one, or even like a kid’s smile. It is so amazing when u feel such unconditional love from a person. But I wonder ever on the earth is such true love exists other than the one from our parents.  Business and love are like same poles of a magnet. They never go with each other. The moment u start expecting the feel of love reduces slowly down to the earth. Love doesn’t exist when u expect considerations (something in return) from it. I have heard that even in Business, consideration is not required for love and mutual relationship ( I do listen in business law classes :P)

In more of a scientific way we can say true love is inversely proportionate to expectations, where one increases the other decreases. Trust me when “True Love” is at peak there will be no question for expectations, even unexpected things happen on its own… J  Many of us would have experienced it from our parents. This is what they call “true love”, not the one where u admire and care someone when u love them and speak all rubbish when they don’t meet ur expectations. We are lucky to experience such true love from our mom and dad; there are quite a lot of people who don’t have that chance (orphans) :/

All I wanted to say is whoever it may be express your love towards them and don’t expect something in return, who knows when such emotion sustains u may be gifted with something u have never dreamt off ;) And never talk bloody things about ur loved ones when u have some mix-ups, it will hurts like hell when the other comes to know about it. And that shows your character and attitude towards love.

And so Finally, To all those people outside who have got such a true lover in their life already, I would say they are luckiest one in the world. To all those who have lot of expectations, my humble request is, try to be a true lover u might also end up to be in the list the luckiest ones :P To all those who had break ups because of expectations, think of the love from ur mom and dad perhaps that might bring back ur true love to u J

So that’s it from me on this post. Ciao in some exciting post next time J

Love is in the Air. It is Every Where!!!! Just feel it  J

Happy Loving J

Regards

Dreamer Boy

Story Behind the Start

Hello people….

I’ve heard scholars say good readers are excellent writers. I’m neither of the two :P But recently I’ve started reading blogs of close ones where I came across the idea of "Pen down the Thoughts", it just struck me and made me think for a while. I have a lot of thoughts in my mind and I share it with people who are with me at that point of time and it just disappears in certain days. If I do what I read in the blog it stays for a long time. May be I can even get some (a lot of actually) critics on my perspectives. With friends moving away after college life to different places and me standing all alone looking at India map locating my friends may be this is the right time to pen down the thoughts actually. And so here I come in to this blogging world with little writing skills, loads of thoughts especially controversial thoughts in mind.

Before the first post which will be some topic that everyone likes to read I’ll just say why I came up with such a blog title. We all know abt left brain and right brain; it is always a mix up of both for a human being with one dominating over other. It is said that people with right brain domination are more creative, intuitive, fantasy oriented and people with left brain domination are the one with logical, verbal and reality based. Recently I took up a test to find out my brain domination. And the result was quite confusion. …:P  I’m a person with right brain domination but looks for logical processing in the events I do. It was little weird actually where do a right brain dominated person look for logics in his doings. In some ways my thoughts also have a lot of logics in it. So that’s why I made up the title to be this. And here we come to the end of first post and some interesting and controversies awaits everyone in upcoming post. Till then ciao..... :D

Regards

Dreamer Boy